tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7596141519037463067.post9017065246269407688..comments2023-11-28T21:38:35.517-08:00Comments on Always the Big Girl: Sex Lives of the 40-Something MothersBig Girlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15074636207863885259noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7596141519037463067.post-83525242221113492102008-08-28T00:15:00.000-07:002008-08-28T00:15:00.000-07:00Wow! How neat to have such great friends to be so ...Wow! How neat to have such great friends to be so open with. ;) Sex...what's that? Lol!!Twixhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03112782947827710096noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7596141519037463067.post-66541567321262952642008-08-13T09:24:00.000-07:002008-08-13T09:24:00.000-07:00I agree with Lynn. Totally relating to you, thoug...I agree with Lynn. Totally relating to you, though I am only 31 as of right now. <BR/><BR/>I have a little group (3 of us) married and in our 30s that meet once a month for our dinner and do about the same thing. It's awesome. :)Fairy Princesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09431401857396963298noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7596141519037463067.post-1158337281343654212008-08-13T09:01:00.000-07:002008-08-13T09:01:00.000-07:00It's great to have a close friend network to talk ...It's great to have a close friend network to talk about things with! Have a great week!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7596141519037463067.post-20555281144379719682008-08-13T07:24:00.000-07:002008-08-13T07:24:00.000-07:00Oh, how I wish I could have been part of that girl...Oh, how I wish I could have been part of that girls-night-out! There's just nothing better than hanging with the girls and talking about sex! <BR/><BR/>Well, expect maybe HAVING sex! LOL!<BR/><BR/>I was interested in reading about menopause women cause I’m in that boat, too. My libido has disappeared completely. I can respond and enjoy if hubby initiates. But I just never think about sex any more. Waaaa!<BR/><BR/>Vibrators? Hotels? Hmmm... maybe there's hope. ;-)Pattiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04775430602334516126noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7596141519037463067.post-31709146504055727462008-08-12T22:35:00.000-07:002008-08-12T22:35:00.000-07:00lol, I am like you, I just want to be left alone s...lol, I am like you, I just want to be left alone sometimes!! I feel like someone always wants something from me... whether its juice, a cookie, or some a$$!! I often joke that I am asexual.Irish Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11057732017469807596noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7596141519037463067.post-30380328091162347942008-08-12T18:25:00.000-07:002008-08-12T18:25:00.000-07:00Oh yes, we are going to get along just fine. :) It...Oh yes, we are going to get along just fine. :) <BR/><BR/>It's a shame so many women (well, so many <I>people</I>, I suppose) are inhibited in talking about sex. I once had a friend tell me she didn't appreciate 'smut talk'. My offense? I said the word 'orgasm'. Out loud. Sheesh.Cammy@TippyToeDiethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00547787031318303521noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7596141519037463067.post-18898608140525345462008-08-12T17:49:00.000-07:002008-08-12T17:49:00.000-07:00I think that's what friendship is all about--shari...I think that's what friendship is all about--sharing frank and open conversations with each other whether it's good or bad.<BR/><BR/>I really enjoyed your post prior to this one. I felt that way too and is one reason I'm not wanting to post about weight. I find the topic boring of late even though I'm still doing well.<BR/><BR/>Mix things up and remember I'mPossible :)Manuelahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09330448362043206094noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7596141519037463067.post-45858084033010606492008-08-12T17:29:00.000-07:002008-08-12T17:29:00.000-07:00sounds like fun! wine cheese and sex talk! cant be...sounds like fun! wine cheese and sex talk! cant beat that. but in all seriousness, its great you have friends you can talk openly about things with and I know that helps. I dont have kids or am married, but my work is my job and my marriage (sad but true), so often I feel that way when it comes time to having sex with my boyfriend. I am way too tired and just want time to sleep or do something by myself.Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02938217552213908906noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7596141519037463067.post-16495508063618083252008-08-12T15:29:00.000-07:002008-08-12T15:29:00.000-07:00I'm getting to the point where I want sex more tha...I'm getting to the point where I want sex more than not. My husband works away from home, so we see each other every other weekend; most of my friends assume that we are like rabbits but most of our time together is spent with the 4 yr old and 2 yr old bosses that run this house :) I like the idea of the hotel...Christahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16501998508877486509noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7596141519037463067.post-9643072332867882952008-08-12T15:09:00.000-07:002008-08-12T15:09:00.000-07:00I too am totally girlcrushing you as well.Im hotel...I too am totally girlcrushing you as well.<BR/><BR/>Im hotel girl.<BR/>now may I join in the next soiree?<BR/><BR/>:)<BR/><BR/>Miz.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7596141519037463067.post-73408751426884126292008-08-12T14:16:00.000-07:002008-08-12T14:16:00.000-07:00I too wish I had a group of friends I could talk t...I too wish I had a group of friends I could talk to openly. Hell, I wish I had a group of friends I could plan on hanging out with once a month!<BR/>By the way, I loved your motto you posted yesterday. :)Allisonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06782360808086006845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7596141519037463067.post-72369915430166297842008-08-12T12:55:00.000-07:002008-08-12T12:55:00.000-07:00Oh you're so right. These are important topics th...Oh you're so right. These are important topics that ought to be addressed!<BR/><BR/>I was talking with my sister the other day about getting sugared and grooming etiquette. They never tell you that stuff in magazines, so you just have to figure it out on your own, which sucks. If we were all a little bit more open about discussing such issues then there would be much less confusion and much more satisfaction! Thank goodness for friends to talk to about sex.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18285850895862247408noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7596141519037463067.post-2335802919064904972008-08-12T12:34:00.000-07:002008-08-12T12:34:00.000-07:00I need more friends like that. Hubby and I are at...I need more friends like that. Hubby and I are at a wierd place right now..he's 7 yrs younger. He wants it ALL THE TIME! I don't. I am really trying but there's just so much going on with all the little ones it's hard to feel romantic sometimes. I am trying though ;) Less than twice a week and he's in a depression!new*mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05147814248509745599noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7596141519037463067.post-63522122712380725072008-08-12T11:31:00.000-07:002008-08-12T11:31:00.000-07:00It is healthy to have such open conversation...goo...It is healthy to have such open conversation...good for you! :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7596141519037463067.post-16353422675692055122008-08-12T10:25:00.000-07:002008-08-12T10:25:00.000-07:00I'm like, the only person my age who's married.Som...I'm like, the only person my age who's married.<BR/><BR/>Somehow that disallows me from talking about my sex life to anyone. Sucks.Christinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17816670347595063112noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7596141519037463067.post-55361652773578266302008-08-12T08:03:00.000-07:002008-08-12T08:03:00.000-07:00Ok, I am now completely in love with you! (No, no...Ok, I am now completely in love with you! (No, no, I don't mean that in a creepy way...) Thanks for stopping by my blog. And I will definitely be back!<BR/><BR/>Seriously, I wish I had a group of friends to talk about sex with, because honestly, I love talking about it almost as much as I love doing it, but most of my friends are pretty repressed.Lynnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13102363251376084521noreply@blogger.com